I am self-employed psychologist for children, adolescents and adults.
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alone arguing battles choose for love co-creation darkness democracy enthusiasm fear freedom historic moment impact light loneliness love mission passion purpose quarrels relationships romance shine terrorism threat warWISH YOU WERE HERE Take a very warm bath. A hot bath, with a lot of foam. Put some music on (I recommend Pink Floyd’s Whish you were here) Take a glass very cold white wine (I recommend Chardonnay). Light some candles. Let yourself glide into the hot water. And then, stop thinking. Just feel. Feel how light you become. Feel how the water carries you. Feel the vib...
When you watch the news, you can hardly feel anything else than fear. The death counter is increasing every day, scenarios of how things could get worse are thrown in our face and the images of what is happening in other countries are horrifying. You cannot possibly feel good about it. It is true that pain and fear should be given a place, but I think you should not make room for imagined or an...
Corona is all over the news and many people are afraid. I'm not going to talk about numbers and predictions here, but let's take a look at what is moving under the surface and in what direction, and how it can benefit humanity. Apart from the difficulties with the disease itself and the inability to visit each other and other painful situations - which I absolutely do not want to minimize here ...
WISHES FOR 2016 Let's sing all together again Instead of suppressing our feelings. Let's dance all together again Instead of hiding behind our barricades. Let's laugh all together again And let out exuberant laughs. Let's forgive each other And spread love and attention around. Even to those who have hurt us Instead of cursing them to the moon. Let us learn to let ...
Christmas time: a time of lights. Lights on the Christmas tree, lights on the table, lights on the front of the house. Lights everywhere. A sea of lights. To brighten up the darkest time of the year. To bring light into the darkness. But above all, as a symbol of the light that we must find (again) within us and let shine. All this sparkling brilliance on the outside is a symbol of the wonderfu...
FEAR CAN NEVER PROTECT US Massive threats. Heightened state of alert. Evacuating homes and neighborhoods and airports. Fear and terror everywhere. I've heard it too. The bloody senseless attacks in Paris. Of course I heard it. But have I seen it? No. I refuse to see the images. I do not watch the news. Once images are burned on my retina, I can’t detach them anymore. The images generate feeli...
Our life is a play in the big cosmic theatre. When we are assuming the role designed for us, we feel happy and we have that inner knowledge that everything is right. We play our role without questioning, we feel great doing our part of the game and we are simply brillant in our role! But when we are playing the wrong role things get ugly. Your soul suffers if you do not play the role designed f...
I like being alone and I love company If I love myself, then I give myself the necessary rest, and then I choose experiences that deliver me (permanent) well-being. For example, I can choose, when I feel like it, not to go to a party or to a restaurant, or to go home earlier and give myself the needed rest. If I need to take a nap during the day, I choose to retire for a moment, set myself a...
In the newspaper we read: "Last month the famous Lion of Zimbabwe, Cecil, was shot and killed. He lived in a national park where hunting is prohibited. The hunters first lured the lion from its habitat with food, then hit Cecil first with bow and arrow. When the lion survived that, he was chased for 40 hours and was finally killed with a gunshot. Walter Palmer, a dentist from Minnesota, paid $ 54,...
We are here on Earth to learn to love. That is not to say ‘to have a lover’! We need to learn how to love. Every relationship serves this purpose. Even when the relationship breaks up, it serves the same purpose. It makes no sense to complain and cry over the end of a relationship. What makes sense is to learn your lessons from your previous relationship. See it as a learning experience, see ...
Free from looking for love. The only thing that really hurts. To feel Love for everything there is. The sea, wind, sun, sand, screaming children, salty water, foaming waves, pebbles in the sand, fresh chilled white wine, singing birds, chirping crickets, bathing in delicious water, resting in the shade of a tree, a “café frappé", the fantastic book of Kryeon about the Akashic records, a rid...
We write today the 1st of July 2015. A historic moment in the history of Europe, and perhaps the world. The monetary system is about to explode. Has to be, since it is a virtual construction of bubbles, and bubbles have the characteristic to explode at some point and disappear into nothingness. This will also happen with the mental inventions of our banking system and debt mountains and loans and ...
If there is war anywhere on this planet, I haven't yet found peace within myself and with the people surrounding me. And only I can create peace. If there are still battles somewhere in the world, it reflects the battles I have still with myself and with others from my surroundings. And only I can commit to create peace. If somewhere on the world stage people or nations are arguing, it means...
